Ask the Pastor

October 9 2025

These are from the “Ask the Pastor” project. Please place your inquiries in the box in the narthex.

Dear Pastor,
Is it wrong to worship God with people of other faiths? I’m asking specifically about worship and not activities like community service, etc.
Signed, Worshipper

Dear Worshipper,

I’d say that you answered your question by specifically naming God as the object of your worship. I don’t think it is ever wrong to worship God, whether you are at another church or synagogue, a mosque or bus station, a Hindu temple, or an AA meeting.
Religions and organizations have their rituals, which may or may not be familiar. Perhaps you would prefer not to prostrate to the ground during Muslim prayers or pour out a milk libation as an offering to Vishnu.
But you can always turn to God in your thoughts. For this reason, I appreciate any moment of silence, whether part of a religious ceremony or not. “Be still,” the Lord says through the psalmist, “and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).
Across various religious traditions, mystics have understood that the One in whom we live, move, and have our being is far greater than any institution or tradition. God can be found anywhere by someone who seeks the truth.
That said, it is helpful to have a community of faith that can help guide you to God. If we rely solely on our own understanding, we could potentially lead ourselves astray. I recommend going to church. I know of a community that worships at 314 Great Ridge Parkway!
Jesus said we will know the truth by its fruit, not by the sign on the building, and holy humility teaches us that we  can learn from others who are seeking goodness, light, and love. My friend, the late Brian Doyle, shared that “the truest words … about divine love” were said by a friend as grace before a meal: “We are part of a Mystery we do not understand, and we are grateful.” With thanksgiving, worship God every chance you can.

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